Well Boy doesn't know about this blog yet, I figure one day I will be able to show him as a surprise. And maybe if we are lucky enough one day it will turn into our wedding blog as well. The beginning seems as good a place to start as any, and a lot has happened since we met even though it hasn't been that long yet. We're going on 3 months here in a few days but it already feels like I know known him for a life-time.
We met on match, and I can honestly say sending him that wink was the best choice I have ever made. In him I have found all the qualities someone could hope for. He is honest, sincere, sweet, intelligent, funny, attractive, and so many other qualities. We had our first date a couple of weeks after we started talking. We met at Owl's Eye Vineyard in Shelby, we stayed for a wine tasting. He never really had wine like that before and I figured it was something low key, we could talk to the people doing the tasting or about the wine, it took the pressure off us a little bit. The lady's doing the wine tasting assumed we had been together for a while now and when we explained that it was a first date they just lit up. One of the women met her husband on match and they talked about how we just looked like we were meant to be together. I was freaking out in my mind going, "yeah thanks lady, no pressure!" But secretly I hoped she was right.
After the wine tasting we went into town and had lunch at a local restaurant called Newts, burgers sandwiches that kind of stuff. We stayed for a couple of hours talking and laughing, it was like being around someone I already knew, nothing was awkward or forced. Oh and he didn't even think I was nuts when I said I had concert tickets for us a couple of months away. Sometimes you have to take the risk to get the reward. After lunch we walked around the downtown area for a while and he held my hand. My god the sparks flew. I knew this was someone that I needed to keep around.
I was sick during this whole date, before he showed up I was popping pills and eating crackers in the car, so about this time I started feeling terrible and told him I was going to have to end the date. Believe me I didn't want to leave, I would have stayed in that moment for an eternity if time allowed. But he understood and was very sweet about it. I don't think I ever wanted to kiss anyone more than I wanted to kiss him at the end of our date. But I didn't want to get him sick, he understood, we hugged and parted ways. I will never forget how good he smelled and how great it felt being wrapped in his arms.
We text that evening about everything and quickly made plans to meet again the following weekend for a hockey game. I'd never been and it was something he really enjoyed so it would be a fun experience for both of us. We kissed pretty much as soon as we met back up, sparks flew once more. At the game he asked if we were official, mind you at this point we basically had plans set with each other through August and plans for other things to do, we were locked in regardless. I really can't tell you much about what happened at the game because there was so much happening.
Since then we have shared so many great experiences that I wish I would have started this earlier to be able to share them all. But this post is already pretty long and it will be an epic work by the time we are done. In him I have met the one whom my soul loves, and this is our journey.
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